If I could share one book with you that has been of the most encouragement to me, this book would be it. Rachel is so real and honest and creative and is the most encouraging woman that I've read lately. Most of the mothering books frustrate me because it's all about "me time" and really focuses on how I can change my kids. But you know what? It's not about me changing my kids. I mean, yes, my kids do need to change, but in the words of Michael Jackson, "I'm starting with the man in the mirror."
In order for my kids to change, my attitude towards my kids have to change. The way I look at the things that my kids do has to change. For example, chaos seems to surround me when I need to be out the door. One kid will need his shoes one. The other will lose their shoes. Then the first child will drop their water and make a mess. Then the second child will have a dirty diaper. It seems like the cycle continues. All of this builds up until I feel like I'm loosing my mind and I explode. Rachel shares that if you break it down, it's really not overwhelming when you think about what child individually needs. So she sets the timer for 20 minutes and knows that in 20 minutes that this chaos will end. I love it! This has been the best thing for me. Making sure that I'm focusing on my heart and my attitude has made a huge difference.
Attitude is a heart issue. I want my children to have a heart to obey and a heart to do things willingly and with the right attitude; not whining or complaining. How can I make sure that my kids have the right attitude about doing things when my attitude towards them can be described as less than stellar at times? My prayer is that their hearts are turned to God and that they will always restore the fellowship with others when it's broken. In my mothering, my goal is to address their heart. So to do that, I need to start with my own heart....and that's not easy.





























